LOVE vs HUMANITY

Before I start writing my second blog I am leaving a question before you like my previous blog which is the theme of this blog:

What do you think is the biggest thing in this world love or humanity?

You know what most obvious things are most difficult to explain. Like what does it mean to be human? This may sound like it should be obvious and, at one time, it was - but not anymore. I think It the common characteristics which binds almost ( I have used almost because I am not sure its present in everyone) every human being with each other. It is natural relationship of one human to another which is created once one takes birth in this world. Other relationships apart from blood relationship are developed over time like friendship; love etc when we intersect with new people .Everyone has his likes and dislikes (opinion) that’s why we find so many groups in every walk of life like friend circle

at personal level or different religion on broader level. Let us consider an example, when we see someone in pain, we feel bad for him. Why do we feel so and how does it degree of feeling varies?

If we know someone our degree will be high but even if he is unknown we have feelings? We wish that he comes out of pain.

From where does this feeling come from? It’s Humanity MAN

Sometimes in life so happens that we take decision but we cannot find a reason why we arrived at such a decision? Do you have any answer?

Let me explain with an example:

Suppose a 5 yr child brings gun in front of you. Your natural reaction will be that you are not afraid. You take it easy but once a young person does the same act, any one will get wet( ha-ha).

Why does it happen? The act is same but we show to different reactions.

Let me give you my explanation for this ,it might be justifying to you. Over the years there are many thoughts which are built in our mind which constitute our natural reactions to particular situation. That is why we reach at some conclusion without realizing it why so happened. Its our surroundings, education and most importantly our parents who are important in builing these thoughts in our mind. This is not only limited to above factor only our experiences in life and person is also responsible for it.

Now let us come to very hot topic break up.Recently one movie was released love aaj kal .Its has shown very dramatic turn back of hero and heroine in the end.Real life is not like this.In this movie hero and heroine remained together for a long time.each one had certain dream to be fulfilled .Heroine wanted to be with hero.Hero told her that he wanted break up .They magically even celebrated it together with friends .

They decided to fulfill their dreams ,but when they reached at fulfilling their dreams ,it was feeling that was forcing them towards each other.

But in real life this seldom happends.Break up happens always .There may be several reason .Most break up are short term break up .It mean the relationship has lasted within 6 months or so.

The long term relationships are very hurting .It’s said

No Relation dies its natural death...

Its dies when each and every expectation from each other dies due to lots of hurt, lots of pain

and when we failed to say that how much we need someone in our life !!! "

Still do you think feelings goes away after it.Should there be still one very natural relationship which is humanity. If this humanities dies for a particular for whom you loved so much in past.Then I Think it was not love at all .It was bul@#$%* . It was all lust which once fulfilled two got separated.Now it time for another to enter into same relationship.

The one who could not understand after remaining for a long time that two are not compatible or there is something wrong even after 1-2 years .There is something wrong with that person. At that time one should analyze himself or herself.If you do unjustice to any one you will have to pay in long run.

Trust me my friends GOD is there to take care of everything.

Everyone want to go heaven but no one wants to dies but HELL is here my friends .Never do things which are socially unacceptable, it can be realiesed in the long term.

To conclude final things in the end in relationship when humanity ends and the person which has lost humanity is like animal.Now its upto you to decide.

Any comments are welcome.